My girlfriend got pregnant. We talked about what to do, and decided together to have an abortion. “ It wasn’t the right time”. “We weren’t ready”. Two months later my girlfriend started talking about the abortion a lot. She started crying a lot. She regretted our choice and wanted to go back and change it. … Continued
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I was not a young naive woman when I had my abortion, yet I had no idea how much I would suffer afterward. I was plagued with guild, shame, and self-hatred. I no longer thought of myself as a good person. Support After Abortion took the healing journey with me and connected me with a … Continued
My wife and I decided we wanted no more children. We already had 2 and both of us struggle with some medical conditions. The days are long and hard to get through. So I had a vasectomy. When my wife told me she was pregnant – the first words I said were “we can’t do … Continued
I just had an abortion yesterday, and I am feeling really depressed, sad and alone. I didn’t expect to feel this way. At the time, I thought it was the right decision. I couldn’t have a baby. How would I manage? Now I’m asking myself the same question, how will I manage without my baby!! … Continued
Last month I thought I was pregnant, boy was I glad when the pregnancy test was negative. I promised that I wouldn’t have unprotected sex ever again. It never occurred to me that I could still get pregnant while using birth control. That is exactly what happened, I believed this would never happen to me … Continued
This is a great article about how reproductive loss can have a major impact on mental health and life choices.
I have 3 kids, the youngest is 11. I don’t want to start over raising children again, yet here I am pregnant. I have an appointment for an abortion next week. I can’t believe this is happening to me. My ex is out of the picture, good riddance. I can’t have another baby. We barely … Continued
While at one of my appointments at Pregnancy Solutions, a volunteer approached me and asked if I’d like to talk to someone about my struggle with my past abortions. I told her to let me think about it. Recognizing the impact that my abortions had on me, I decided to go for it. A really … Continued
I am a young male whose girlfriend chose to abort our child and it is slowly killing me inside. I am lost and I feel alone. I have no one to talk to about it because she does not want to talk about him. I need help. I promised my girlfriend I wouldn’t tell anyone … Continued