My girlfriend got pregnant. We talked about what to do and decided together to have an abortion. “ It wasn’t the right time”. “We weren’t ready”. Two months later my girlfriend started talking about abortion a lot. She started crying a lot. She regretted our choice and wanted to go back and change it. But there’s no going back. How do I help my girlfriend? I found Support After Abortion on-line and when I called they answered. We’re getting the help we need. We can’t go back, but we can and are moving forward. Before making a decision that you cannot undo, talk to someone about your options.